Increasing Your Traffic

“Those who can, do. Those who can’t, teach. Those who can’t teach, teach gym.” – Woody Allen

Hello class – my name is Coach Smyth and I’m going to be your instructor today.

After asking what you’d all like to know more about, increasing traffic to our blogs seemed to generate the most interest, so we’ll talk about that. Keep in mind that I’ve only been seriously blogging since February, so most of what I’m going to tell you about are the tried-and-true methods of other bloggers who actually have lots and lots of traffic to their sites. I’ve done a ton of research on the subject since I began committing my lunatic ramblings to posterity blogging, and there are quite a few things that people agree on.

1. Blog. Well, of course I blog, you say, or I wouldn’t be here asking your how to get more visitors to my site. Yes, but how often do you blog? You have to write, and write on a regular basis, if you want visitors. If you don’t blog for weeks, the readers you do have will stop coming by. Anyone who might stumble upon your blog won’t come back if your latest post is six months old. They may not come back if your latest post is more than a couple of weeks old. As of this writing, I average about two hundred visits to my blog each day; the week my son was here visiting and I didn’t have time to blog, those numbers dropped a bit. It’s true.

2. Read other blogs. I do that too! you protest. Or, again, I wouldn’t be here. So, comment on them! If you don’t leave a comment, no one is going to know who you are. When I’m bored, I’ll visit all my favorite blogs and click on the names of all the comments they get, just to see who else is nuts smart enough to enjoy this as much as I do. I’ve found some really great blogs I just adore that way. Leaving comments is good.

3. Reply to comments left on your blog. This is the thing I seem to have the most problems with personally, and I admit it. I’m starting to really work on it because it occurred to me – there are literally millions of blogs out there and these people make an effort to come to my blog, read it and leave me a comment. Like most people, I get a thrill when someone comments on my blog – I should acknowledge them so they’ll come back. And maybe bring more minions to me their friends with them.

4. Become part of a blogging community. Chances are, if you’re here, reading MidLifeBloggers.com, you’re interested in issues pertaining to midlife – more specifically, midlife women. Look at the blogroll to the right (is it the right? By golly, it is!) – is the name of your blog there? Yes? Congratulations! You’ve cleared one more hurdle. Because while I am fairly new to the blogosphere, I am no neophyte to the world of Search Engine Optimization, and the more quality, inbound links to your blog, the higher you’re going to rank in search engines – and in the blogosphere that means Technorati. For those of you going “Technorati? Huh?” Technorati is THE blogging search engine; it crawls and catalogs over 60 million blogs and ranks them according to popularity – mostly by how many other blogs link to them. Technorati is to bloggers what Google is to a business site. When you find like-minded bloggers and become part of community, linking to and interacting with each other, it’s like an avalanche – you find other people, other people find you and before you know it you’ve expanded your horizons and, just maybe, pushed he limits of your comfortable little world to an extent you may have never imagined.

I could go on, and will in future posts as we delve more deeply into this subject – I haven’t touched such traffic-driving gimmicks such as carnivals and give-aways and memes. But before you get all excited about becoming the next blogging superstar, take a minute to think about why you blog.

Did you begin doing this to make money or become the most popular kid on the block? Or did you begin blogging because you felt you had something that needed to be said? Or did you just want to give voice to the thoughts rolling around in your head? Let’s face it – most of us began blogging because it is, simply put, fun. Rewarding. Therapeutic. Insert reason here. But no matter the reason, no matter how popular our blogs may become, for most of us blogging is a very personal experience. Try not to lose sight of that; do you really want to set aside the real rewards, the real reasons you blog, just for the sake of some blog statistics?

As always, I’ll leave this with an open invitation to ask whatever questions you like. If I don’t know the answer immediately, I’ll find out.

  • http://icafemidlifemoderne.blogspot.com Gayle Herbert Robinson

    Thank your for your advice. I will put it to good use.
    I’ve been blogging for a month. I wanted my first several posts of my blog: iCafe Midlife Moderne to appear as a virtual cafe for midlife women to make several trips to one post. It’s written like a webcast with lurkers eavesdropping on conversations among the wacky customers and servers in this virtual cafe housed inside a fictional Art Moderne midcentury home. But longer posts take longer to create. So, I’m searching for a middle ground where I can generate posts more frequently and still maintain the current feel.

    Another problem, I can’t find a comment box in my blogger software, so I use my email address. I’ve searched and searched, but still can’t find one. Can I use a third-party comment box and put the code into my template? Where can I find one?

    Thank you for your help.

    • http://midlifebloggers.com byjane

      Gayle,
      I’ve gone to your site and it seems to be a commercial blog for a hotel in Hawaii….what gives?
      Jane

  • http://www.tipsfromhome.com jill

    great article, thanks, I’ve been blogging sense Jan. and it’s becoming quite addicting

  • http://www.girlsgardenofmenopause.com/ Ellen

    Jan,
    This is such a nice, unintimidating approach to the fundamentals. I attended Elise Bauer’s fabulous, if somewhat daunting, presentation on building traffic at BlogHer08. And I walked out of that breakout room brimming with optimism and resolve. But that was almost three weeks ago–and I’ve put exactly none of her advice into practice. As much as I want a broader (no pun intended) audience, I realize that I am deeply uneasy about promoting myself.

  • http://steppingthru.wordpress.com Susan

    Tara, Thanks for the tips. I am new to this and began blogging to free up some brain space. I tried writing a book but it was too short and too sad. I tried keeping a diary but kept loosing it (hope the people finding them enjoy my rants) so my sis suggested blogging. I enjoy your blogs! Keep up the good writing!

  • http://www.jbsitedesigns.com janissmyth

    Hi Tara! You can find me over at Jan’s Sushi Bar – I look forward to seeing you there!

    • http://www.rahd.wordpress.com Tara

      Argh – I replied to my own reply! I meant to reply here, to you. (Of course, talking to myself is nothing new, but I usually don’t do it on the computer.) Anyway, it’s good to meet you, Jan!

  • http://www.rahd.wordpress.com Tara

    Thanks, Coach!

    I’ve been thinking a lot lately about my blogging – why I blog, what do I have to say, if I blog in the forest and no one reads it … anyway, this article has made me think about a few issues. I may need to blog about this!

    But – where is the link to YOUR blog? I’ve love to know more about you! (I’m new here so excuse me if I should know this.)

    • http://www.rahd.wordpress.com Tara

      Great! It’s nice to meet you.

      I’ll head on over to your blog!

  • http://onebagnation.wordpress.com Ann at One Bag Nation

    Hi – I hope you’ll go into SEO in depth. I know what it is, but I don’t know how to optimize a blog.
    I’d also love to learn more about carnivals.

    My current blog is not a midlife blog, but I’m about to launch a new blog that will be about being an older mom to young children, and I’d like to start it with more info than when I started one bag nation!

    Look forward to more posts – thank you.

  • http://www.poshmama.com Posh Mama

    Great article and I always find when I’m cruising around looking at other blogs and commenting that I am laughing and learning so much. It’s amazing how many talented and wonderful women we have access to on a daily basis. Thanks for your hard work and great suggestions! Much love, xoxo-pm

  • http://www.rebelliousthoughtsofawoman.com Laura

    Thanks for the tips. I read a book sitting on a stool in Barnes and Noble the other day culling advice from the big-hit sites, and the only thing that I could add from that reading to this list is quality of content. That was something that most of the bloggers stressed. So take the time to proofread, maybe even wait before posting so that you can read it a few minutes or hours later with fresh eyes before all the world sees your mistakes. And as an English teacher, I can tell you that their advice was truly appreciated.

    Laura, http://www.RebelliousThoughtsofaWoman.com

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