Comments on: Spousal Abuse: Get Your Words Off Me http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/09/29/spousal-abuse-get-your-words-off-me/ Making The Most of MidLife--Together Fri, 12 Mar 2010 19:47:29 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: byjane http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/09/29/spousal-abuse-get-your-words-off-me/comment-page-1/#comment-4344 byjane Mon, 14 Sep 2009 19:58:54 +0000 http://midlifebloggers.com/?p=372#comment-4344 Here's a link for a site that can help you: http://violenceunsilenced.com/ Good luck. Here’s a link for a site that can help you: http://violenceunsilenced.com/

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]]> By: mary http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/09/29/spousal-abuse-get-your-words-off-me/comment-page-1/#comment-4326 mary Fri, 11 Sep 2009 22:47:22 +0000 http://midlifebloggers.com/?p=372#comment-4326 my boyfriend of 6 years has began not to touch me,be angry all the time not to talk to me.The small thing make a big quarell.He has problem using his money,he works god,earn good money but pay a big del og yhat to ex wife.He means he want to give her.He does not want to pay money for food and home we have together,he means i have two children and because his children are not living at home,he will not share things with me.He comes home,eat food i make but will not give money,mean i use much money on food.Sometimes he buy food but the cheapest one he can find and then just bread or something fat that my chilren does not like. He want me to sell apartment i bought before,which i have rent.He says he do not know why i have to have other apartment,but it is all i have put away all these years. He sit and see TV whole night,with very loud music,each time i say something he say,you and your children have whole the house i have no place then he has got whole sittingroom.Each friday he has to go out and make drunk,because he mean he need to come to reset point,then whole saturday and sunday he is not excisting with us,he is tired. Gud i have to take it in other way... my boyfriend of 6 years has began not to touch me,be angry all the time not to talk to me.The small thing make a big quarell.He has problem using his money,he works god,earn good money but pay a big del og yhat to ex wife.He means he want to give her.He does not want to pay money for food and home we have together,he means i have two children and because his children are not living at home,he will not share things with me.He comes home,eat food i make but will not give money,mean i use much money on food.Sometimes he buy food but the cheapest one he can find and then just bread or something fat that my chilren does not like.
He want me to sell apartment i bought before,which i have rent.He says he do not know why i have to have other apartment,but it is all i have put away all these years.
He sit and see TV whole night,with very loud music,each time i say something he say,you and your children have whole the house i have no place then he has got whole sittingroom.Each friday he has to go out and make drunk,because he mean he need to come to reset point,then whole saturday and sunday he is not excisting with us,he is tired.

Gud i have to take it in other way…

]]> By: Anika http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/09/29/spousal-abuse-get-your-words-off-me/comment-page-1/#comment-3259 Anika Fri, 29 May 2009 14:48:07 +0000 http://midlifebloggers.com/?p=372#comment-3259 Very interesting read, I think their would be a lot of mixed opinions on this. Love the theme that you are using, what is it? Very interesting read, I think their would be a lot of mixed opinions on this. Love the theme that you are using, what is it?

]]> By: freedom http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/09/29/spousal-abuse-get-your-words-off-me/comment-page-1/#comment-2597 freedom Wed, 25 Feb 2009 00:07:50 +0000 http://midlifebloggers.com/?p=372#comment-2597 reckon all these men and some women have the same pattern of abuse which goes back to their own insecurities from their childhood. unfortunatly we accept this and we all have breaking points some take longer than others with the suffering and i do believe that when the time is right most have the courage to leave evenutually or sadly the ones who cant find the courage to leave just end up losing feelings inwardly so sad. i am glad that this type of abuse is now bieng brought more out in the open woman and also men who are abused mentally and physically can share thier experiences and relate to what they put up with and recognise they are not alone. For me i put them into 2 different categories there are the physical and verbal abusers who hurt to the core and then there are the verbal and physical abusers who are evil with thier words and attempt or succeed to break your spirit and unfortunatly that latter has happened to some. to end this comment one saying which i hope brings a smile or laugh to those who read this is when someone tells u that you are stupid,useless,have an ugly body, they dont need you for money,sex, or business,and there are plenty of girls out thier who are nicer looking and better figure that you have . Then my answer to that one was why do u stay with me when i have all these defects. thats not love and never could be. it takes courage to leave this situation and strength masters fear. reckon all these men and some women have the same pattern of abuse which goes back to their own insecurities from their childhood. unfortunatly we accept this and we all have breaking points some take longer than others with the suffering and i do believe that when the time is right most have the courage to leave evenutually or sadly the ones who cant find the courage to leave just end up losing feelings inwardly so sad.

i am glad that this type of abuse is now bieng brought more out in the open woman and also men who are abused mentally and physically can share thier experiences and relate to what they put up with and recognise they are not alone. For me i put them into 2 different categories there are the physical and verbal abusers who hurt to the core and then there are the verbal and physical abusers who are evil with thier words and attempt or succeed to break your spirit and unfortunatly that latter has happened to some.

to end this comment one saying which i hope brings a smile or laugh to those who read this is when someone tells u that you are stupid,useless,have an ugly body, they dont need you for money,sex, or business,and there are plenty of girls out thier who are nicer looking and better figure that you have . Then my answer to that one was why do u stay with me when i have all these defects.

thats not love and never could be.
it takes courage to leave this situation and strength masters fear.

]]> By: Laura http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/09/29/spousal-abuse-get-your-words-off-me/comment-page-1/#comment-2279 Laura Wed, 31 Dec 2008 16:36:26 +0000 http://midlifebloggers.com/?p=372#comment-2279 Sally, all I can say is the deepest sorry and send out a healing thoughts. I am so sorry that your love has been so debased and disgraced. All the best as you free yourself from this abyss. Sally, all I can say is the deepest sorry and send out a healing thoughts. I am so sorry that your love has been so debased and disgraced. All the best as you free yourself from this abyss.

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