Comments on: Sex, Lingerie and Midlife: I’m Bringing Sexy Back http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/11/16/im-bringing-sexy-back/ Making The Most of MidLife--Together Fri, 17 Dec 2010 21:56:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.3 By: Cecilia http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/11/16/im-bringing-sexy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-1613 Cecilia Tue, 25 Nov 2008 04:14:23 +0000 http://midlifebloggers.com/?p=411#comment-1613 There's a lot to be said for some one who loves you the way you are after a couple decades together. That's something us to be thankful for this holiday! There’s a lot to be said for some one who loves you the way you are after a couple decades together. That’s something us to be thankful for this holiday!

]]> By: Stepping Thru http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/11/16/im-bringing-sexy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-1540 Stepping Thru Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:10:17 +0000 http://midlifebloggers.com/?p=411#comment-1540 Wow, I could have written this post word for word. And I agree with Dina about the territory theory. I KNOW how I look in those little lacy string things! I am not blind or dumb. He tells me that he doesn't compare me to the VS models but I compare myself to them. He says he loves me just the way I am and after 31 years I think he really does. I guess he can bring me those VS packages if he wants, its a small price to pay for happiness. Wow, I could have written this post word for word. And I agree with Dina about the territory theory. I KNOW how I look in those little lacy string things! I am not blind or dumb. He tells me that he doesn’t compare me to the VS models but I compare myself to them. He says he loves me just the way I am and after 31 years I think he really does. I guess he can bring me those VS packages if he wants, its a small price to pay for happiness.

]]> By: Lingerie: Bringing Midlife Sexy Back? : This Marriage Thing http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/11/16/im-bringing-sexy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-1530 Lingerie: Bringing Midlife Sexy Back? : This Marriage Thing Wed, 19 Nov 2008 07:39:58 +0000 http://midlifebloggers.com/?p=411#comment-1530 [...] She poses the age-old question: why do men love lingerie?   [...] [...] She poses the age-old question: why do men love lingerie?   [...]

]]> By: Cecilia http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/11/16/im-bringing-sexy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-1520 Cecilia Tue, 18 Nov 2008 20:11:46 +0000 http://midlifebloggers.com/?p=411#comment-1520 I'm on to that strategy. It's a good thing if you get too hot in bed because then you will just take it off! We all know what that's a signal for. I’m on to that strategy. It’s a good thing if you get too hot in bed because then you will just take it off! We all know what that’s a signal for.

]]> By: Cecilia http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/11/16/im-bringing-sexy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-1518 Cecilia Tue, 18 Nov 2008 20:08:18 +0000 http://midlifebloggers.com/?p=411#comment-1518 I agree that men live to see their women in lingerie and they don't seem to care about the extra pounds, stretch marks or gravity. Thank you for not trying to convince me that I would get used to walking around all day with a wedge! I agree that men live to see their women in lingerie and they don’t seem to care about the extra pounds, stretch marks or gravity. Thank you for not trying to convince me that I would get used to walking around all day with a wedge!

]]> By: Allison http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/11/16/im-bringing-sexy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-1505 Allison Tue, 18 Nov 2008 04:41:09 +0000 http://midlifebloggers.com/?p=411#comment-1505 I think Dina is on to something, not that it would be based on RECENT experience :) But I do have memories of guys thinking I looked pretty good even when I felt a few pounds too heavy, or bloated or whatever. As much as they appreciate the Victoria's Secret hotties, somehow I think they don't see the gap between them and me as much as I see the gap. As usual, we women are harder on ourselves than anyone else, I think. But, forget the THONGS, no way, unh unh. I don't care what anyone says, they are NOT comfortable and if they aren't rubbing one thing the wrong way, they're rubbing something else the wrong way. OUCH! I think Dina is on to something, not that it would be based on RECENT experience :) But I do have memories of guys thinking I looked pretty good even when I felt a few pounds too heavy, or bloated or whatever. As much as they appreciate the Victoria’s Secret hotties, somehow I think they don’t see the gap between them and me as much as I see the gap. As usual, we women are harder on ourselves than anyone else, I think.

But, forget the THONGS, no way, unh unh. I don’t care what anyone says, they are NOT comfortable and if they aren’t rubbing one thing the wrong way, they’re rubbing something else the wrong way. OUCH!

]]> By: Middle-Aged-Woman http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/11/16/im-bringing-sexy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-1501 Middle-Aged-Woman Mon, 17 Nov 2008 23:40:47 +0000 http://midlifebloggers.com/?p=411#comment-1501 The wonderful man I married? Brought me a package from Victoria's Secret containing a green flannel nightshirt. Now THAT'S love. The wonderful man I married? Brought me a package from Victoria’s Secret containing a green flannel nightshirt. Now THAT’S love.

]]> By: Cecilia http://midlifebloggers.com/2008/11/16/im-bringing-sexy-back/comment-page-1/#comment-1500 Cecilia Mon, 17 Nov 2008 23:33:54 +0000 http://midlifebloggers.com/?p=411#comment-1500 I'm actually pretty happy with my body considering my age and childbearing history. I think a mortgage paid off free and clear would be extremely sexy. That would have me purring like a kitten! I’m actually pretty happy with my body considering my age and childbearing history. I think a mortgage paid off free and clear would be extremely sexy. That would have me purring like a kitten!

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