Watching My Waist
Mon, 8/03/10 – 13:55 | No Comment

Then came the earthquakes. A divorce, single motherhood, a bankruptcy. Bing, Bang. Boom. Even though I was an emotional wreck, I never ballooned to outrageous proportions. Still, for the first time in my life I had to shimmy into a girdle to control the overflow of tummy flesh. I was mortified.

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BlogHer’09: The Good, the Bad, and the Meh
Friday, 31 Jul, 2009 – 18:16 | 22 Comments
BlogHer’09:  The Good, the Bad, and the Meh

[They] founded BlogHer with four purposes in mind: exposure, community, education, and economic empowerment for women bloggers. I think the economic empowerment head is now leading the beast.

The Bathing Suit Woes….oh, woe
Thursday, 30 Jul, 2009 – 16:32 | No Comment
The Bathing Suit Woes….oh, woe

The bathing suits are all on sale, but–hey! the Halloween costumes are as well. We at MidLifeBloggers think that Perrie might want to consider going as Mrs. Potato Head this year…

Check out Perrie Meno-Pudge, …

Racism
Wednesday, 29 Jul, 2009 – 13:09 | 17 Comments
Racism

And then it occurred to me that everyone ReTweeting me on Twitter was assuming I was white. And that makes something I say about African-Americans racist? Isn’t that also the basest racism there is?

Fashion Fouls: The Older I Get, the Easier It Is to Make Them
Wednesday, 22 Jul, 2009 – 0:17 | 6 Comments
Fashion Fouls: The Older I Get, the Easier It Is to Make Them

The fear in the back of my mind, though, is that I could be that woman in the flowered leggings and gym shorts. Maybe not this minute, but someday. It was almost like a premonition.

Tweet @MidLifeBloggers at #BlogHer09
Wednesday, 22 Jul, 2009 – 0:13 | 2 Comments

I’m off–tra la–to Chicago for the annual BlogHer blowout.  This is my fourth BlogHer conference, and they get bigger and bigger and–yikes!–bigger.
My panel is on Friday, 1:15 – 2:30.  I want to call it “Coloring …

Perrie Meno-Pudge remembers summers past…
Thursday, 16 Jul, 2009 – 17:22 | No Comment
Perrie Meno-Pudge remembers summers past…

Visit Perrie at her home…

I Come From Here: a poem
Wednesday, 15 Jul, 2009 – 12:32 | 3 Comments
I Come From Here: a poem

I come from mailmen and factory workers. Fishermen and mapmakers. War veterans.
I come from stay at home mothers. Writers. Thinkers. Feminists. Nurses. Farm women.

Introducing: The MidLifeBloggers Writer’s Workshop
Monday, 13 Jul, 2009 – 0:07 | 32 Comments
Introducing: The MidLifeBloggers Writer’s Workshop

To commandeer one’s thoughts, to harness one’s emotions, to find the words and the syntax that drives them straight into a reader’s mind: it is, I believe, the ultimate power, far greater than physical prowess or financial.

Perrie Meno-Pudge’s Wardrobe Malfunctions
Thursday, 9 Jul, 2009 – 11:13 | One Comment
Perrie Meno-Pudge’s Wardrobe Malfunctions

Like Perrie?  Visit her at Perrie Meno-Pudge…

To Dye or Not: An Update
Tuesday, 7 Jul, 2009 – 11:06 | 13 Comments
To Dye or Not:  An Update

This chic new look has me fantasizing about Japanese designer clothes and moving to Manhattan. And when I’m not thinking about how much I hate my neck, I’m groovin’ on the cropped hair…

MidLifeBloggers.com: Our Mission Statement
Sunday, 5 Jul, 2009 – 14:55 | 2 Comments
MidLifeBloggers.com:  Our Mission Statement

MidLifeBloggers is more of a boutique, a salon of sorts, offering well-written, thoughtful, provocative posts (be they prose, poetry, or visual arts) on each and every issue–big and small, real and imagined–that any one of us is experiencing as we are wending our way through this period in our lives.

Pimp That Post!
Wednesday, 1 Jul, 2009 – 13:03 | 13 Comments

Which is what I’m doing right now:   pimping my most recent post for More.com….in which I whine about why I’m bad at pimping (my mama done brought me up right)–and why it’s crucial to this …