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	<title>Comments on: How To Beat The Deadline Trap</title>
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		<title>By: byjane</title>
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		<dc:creator>byjane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 20:10:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aaron...
Hope your deadline project is coming along.  Reading your post put me right back in graduate school (which I did as a midlifer!).  I would get to the point you were at and just think--&quot;Can&#039;t do it.  Don&#039;t wanna do it.&quot;  Sometimes I&#039;d even call the prof to say I couldn&#039;t do it.  Somehow, though, I always came through and got it done.  I think the act of saying I can&#039;t do it--or changing the deadline in your mind--somehow releases the blocks.
Good luck....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aaron&#8230;<br />
Hope your deadline project is coming along.  Reading your post put me right back in graduate school (which I did as a midlifer!).  I would get to the point you were at and just think&#8211;&#8221;Can&#8217;t do it.  Don&#8217;t wanna do it.&#8221;  Sometimes I&#8217;d even call the prof to say I couldn&#8217;t do it.  Somehow, though, I always came through and got it done.  I think the act of saying I can&#8217;t do it&#8211;or changing the deadline in your mind&#8211;somehow releases the blocks.<br />
Good luck&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Aaron</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 13:29:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>oh and btw.. erm I came along this site from google, and didnt realise the title &#039;midlife&#039; so its not really for me, just thought id comment that back to clarify</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>oh and btw.. erm I came along this site from google, and didnt realise the title &#8216;midlife&#8217; so its not really for me, just thought id comment that back to clarify</p>
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		<title>By: Aaron</title>
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		<dc:creator>Aaron</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 13:27:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s good advice, it sorta helped me out :) I myself have got a deadline this frday (8th) and im trying to complete it all which in my opinion is tackling the impossible.

It&#039;s a university deadline not a work place. Design Degree course and the deadline date is set in stone or I lose 20% of mark, then 50% for another day and then Fail for last day.

So I&#039;m in a state of do it or die :P plus im doing that whilst ive got a nast cough and its snowing outside :D ahh lovely days lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s good advice, it sorta helped me out <img src='http://midlifebloggers.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  I myself have got a deadline this frday (8th) and im trying to complete it all which in my opinion is tackling the impossible.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a university deadline not a work place. Design Degree course and the deadline date is set in stone or I lose 20% of mark, then 50% for another day and then Fail for last day.</p>
<p>So I&#8217;m in a state of do it or die <img src='http://midlifebloggers.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' />  plus im doing that whilst ive got a nast cough and its snowing outside <img src='http://midlifebloggers.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' />  ahh lovely days lol</p>
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		<title>By: Marguerite Orane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marguerite Orane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Dec 2009 17:07:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>HI Laura - assume your &quot;deadline&quot; was your 45th birthday!  Well, congrats!  As a 53 year young, I can only tell you that the best is yet to come!  Truly - best kept secret.

Yes, like anything else, deadlines have their uses - we just need to make sure that we control them rather than making them control us.

Here&#039;s to an amazing 2010!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HI Laura &#8211; assume your &#8220;deadline&#8221; was your 45th birthday!  Well, congrats!  As a 53 year young, I can only tell you that the best is yet to come!  Truly &#8211; best kept secret.</p>
<p>Yes, like anything else, deadlines have their uses &#8211; we just need to make sure that we control them rather than making them control us.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s to an amazing 2010!</p>
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		<title>By: Laura</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laura</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 18:38:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m having a deadline of my own tomorrow. I turn 45. Some deadlines hit harder than others. I&#039;ve also got to send you the Great Interview questions which let go for a couple of weeks longer than I expected. No matter how we try to change our attitude about deadlines they still creep right along. Sometimes they are good though, keep you on track and give you discipline.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m having a deadline of my own tomorrow. I turn 45. Some deadlines hit harder than others. I&#8217;ve also got to send you the Great Interview questions which let go for a couple of weeks longer than I expected. No matter how we try to change our attitude about deadlines they still creep right along. Sometimes they are good though, keep you on track and give you discipline.</p>
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