Watching My Waist
Mon, 8/03/10 – 13:55 | No Comment

Then came the earthquakes. A divorce, single motherhood, a bankruptcy. Bing, Bang. Boom. Even though I was an emotional wreck, I never ballooned to outrageous proportions. Still, for the first time in my life I had to shimmy into a girdle to control the overflow of tummy flesh. I was mortified.

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Fifty: What Taylor Swift might be singing in 35 years…
Monday, 1 Mar, 2010 – 14:47 | 3 Comments
Fifty: What Taylor Swift might be singing in 35 years…

One day it struck me, as I was listening to Swift’s song how well the word “fifty” fit in the title spot. I decided to write the rest of the song.

Use it or lose it: your brain, that is
Monday, 22 Feb, 2010 – 15:06 | 8 Comments
Use it or lose it: your brain, that is

Really, I was afraid of making the wrong decision. At the age of 43, I didn’t want to start down a road, using up precious time and money, and then realizing it was a road I didn’t want to be on after all.

A Vagina State of Mind
Sunday, 14 Feb, 2010 – 14:54 | 7 Comments
A  Vagina State of Mind

During a routine visit a few days ago, we explored a new frontier in our doctor/patient relationship…one not yet (or hopefully ever to be) explored with my husband.

Valentine’s Day 2010: Table For One, Please
Thursday, 11 Feb, 2010 – 21:51 | 8 Comments
Valentine’s Day 2010: Table For One, Please

Last year I wasn’t dating anyone. I don’t recall right now how I spent that day, probably with my head in a bottle of wine- red, of course. Celebrating some form of self love, hopefully. But I was probably bemoaning my fate as a single woman…

Poetry from Midlife: Deep Bloom
Monday, 8 Feb, 2010 – 14:44 | 8 Comments
Poetry from Midlife: Deep Bloom

I want to live
right through to the end in full frontal
engagement, awake to everything.

Going Home–While You Still Can
Monday, 1 Feb, 2010 – 0:17 | 8 Comments
Going Home–While You Still Can

Time really does move faster when you’re older….I just blinked and 2009 had passed me by before I realized it…and 2010 is already moving just as fast!

Age, Wisdom & Whatever Else I Know…
Monday, 25 Jan, 2010 – 0:47 | 8 Comments
Age, Wisdom & Whatever Else I Know…

Since I’m roughly halfway through my life, you can expect the following to be half wise.

Hey, Facebook: Thanks for giving me more than just memories
Monday, 18 Jan, 2010 – 1:17 | 5 Comments
Hey, Facebook: Thanks for giving me more than just memories

She was beautiful, smart and funny and I had an enormous schoolboy crush on her.

A Cougar Moment
Sunday, 10 Jan, 2010 – 18:16 | 15 Comments
A Cougar Moment

When we were introduced, I felt SOMETHING. Slightly muted, but it was there. Chemistry, perhaps, smothered in a few coats of dust

Men Of A Certain Age versus Cougartown
Tuesday, 5 Jan, 2010 – 17:27 | 10 Comments

I watched Men of A Certain Age last night for the first time.  That may be because last night was the first night it was on.  Or maybe I’m just a late bloomer, being all …

How To Save Your Own Life
Sunday, 3 Jan, 2010 – 21:44 | 2 Comments
How To Save Your Own Life

I can see How To Save Your Own Life on the bedside table of someone who likes to fall asleep at night with something spiritually-provocative on their mind

How To Beat The Deadline Trap
Monday, 14 Dec, 2009 – 14:29 | 5 Comments
How To Beat The Deadline Trap

As I lolled in the sand in a state of total relaxation and bliss, I had a revelation…