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Wednesday Writers Workshop: Building a better writer with timed-freewriting
Wednesday, 10 Mar, 2010 – 13:33 | 3 Comments

Do you ever do timed free-writing?  Do you ever just set a timer for ten or fifteen or thirty minutes and write about anything and everything till the bell rings?   You’re not writing about …

Wednesday Writers Workshop: The Writer’s Bookshelf
Wednesday, 3 Mar, 2010 – 13:23 | 7 Comments

There was a time when I bought books about writing with a hunger and a purpose.  I just knew that one of them, or maybe two or three, held the secrets to the universe of …

Wednesday Writers Workshop: Description, or Do You See What I See
Wednesday, 24 Feb, 2010 – 13:54 | One Comment

That is the purpose of description, you know, to suck your reader into your mind’s eye, and spew out for their benefit exactly what you’re seeing. Some people are really good at it.   …

Wednesday Writer’s Workshop: Beginnings
Wednesday, 10 Feb, 2010 – 15:25 | 3 Comments

Where do you begin a story? At the beginning, of course.
Well, maybe not. Hard news writers, the actual reporters among us, have to begin their leads with the time-honored 5Ws and H: …

Wednesday Writer’s Workshop: Writing Creative Non-Fiction
Wednesday, 3 Feb, 2010 – 13:30 | No Comment

This year, the sixth annual BlogHer conference has a Writing Track, and as part of that track, there will be two Rooms of Your Own (ROYO).  If you have been to Blogher before, then you …

Wednesday Writer’s Workshop: Revision, Looking At The Big Picture
Wednesday, 27 Jan, 2010 – 13:33 | No Comment

Here is the first essay/blog post that will be the subject of an on-going editing dialogue. This is the first draft, untouched by human hands, as it were. Your job is to read …

Wednesday Writer’s Workshop: The Miracle of Paragraphing
Tuesday, 19 Jan, 2010 – 18:29 | 9 Comments

Do you write short or long? Do you meander into a story, or just get right to the point? And does it make a difference? I’m asking this because I’ve been aware for …

Wednesday Writer’s Workshop: Facing The Page In The Long Gray Days of Winter
Wednesday, 13 Jan, 2010 – 1:39 | 5 Comments

It’s January, that cold gray endless month that follows the hey, everybody! glitz and tinsel of December.
Let’s pause for a moment while I get fully into my cold, gray, endless mood…
Okay, I’m there.
So–how are all …

Wednesday Writer’s Workshop: Writing as a Relationship
Wednesday, 6 Jan, 2010 – 14:38 | 3 Comments

“Patricia Highsmith….lost her form. The problem wasn’t the supposed confines of crime writing, but her increasing refusal–in love and in work–to let a relationship happen. And art is always about relationship–to the material, …

Wednesday Writer’s Workshop: A Christmas Gift
Wednesday, 23 Dec, 2009 – 12:55 | No Comment

Yes, yes, yes–I know that everyone is overwhelmed with the holidays.  But really, you shouldn’t close your writer’s eye at such a rich time.  So, here’s another exercise that you can do in your mind, …

Wednesday Writer’s Workshop: The Tao of Word Choice
Tuesday, 15 Dec, 2009 – 13:39 | 4 Comments

As writers, all we have to work with is our words.  They’re the currency of our craft; we use them to say, to show, to explain, to tell, to create an idea or a world …

Wednesday Writer’s Workshop: Dreaded Deadlines
Wednesday, 9 Dec, 2009 – 15:10 | One Comment

There’s an old saw that may or may not be a Joan Rivers joke: “Men–can’t live with them and can’t live without them!” That’s how I feel about deadlines. As someone who …