midlife career changes

Midlife Schizophrenia: Who do I want to be when I grow up?

06.04.2009

We’re at different stages at different times of our lives. We may go back and forth through being out in the world and being inward.

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Dreams, Goals and Reality

05.14.2009

Last year when I started MidLifeBloggers, a small lust lodged in my brain. More magazine would come calling…and offer me untold wealth to sell them the site. I believe this fantasy included a home in the South of France–and the body to go with it.

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Cross-Train Your Brain

02.04.2009

My days are filled from morning to night, but never with just one thing. I am, in fact, constitutionally incapable of any kind of singular focus. My life has been lived, and what successes I’ve had, follow a shotgun methodology: I spray the woods and where the buckshot lands, I go gather the goods. I resist the sneers of those who call me dilettante and I insist my way is The Way. But secretly, as I said, I feel guilty. Now, here comes Ingrid E. Cummings telling me that not only do I have a place in the world, more people should be like me! In The Vigorous Mind, Cummings argues for “a return to a Renaissance perspective, when the ideal was to be well-rounded.” Her thesis is contained within the subtitle: “Cross-Train Your Brain to Break Through Mental, Emotional, and Professional Boundaries.”

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The American Idol Audition: In Real Life

01.26.2009

A couple of weeks ago, I watched the first night of this season’s American Idol auditions with teenage son, Jacob, and I found myself paying particular attention to the words Simon, Paula, Kara and Randy used to tell rejected contestants that they wouldn’t be moving on to the next round. Interestingly/scarily, some of the judge’s words resonated with me.

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How I Made It Through HIS Midlife Crisis

09.18.2008

by Celeste Lindell of Average Jane It all started when my husband was in his mid-40s. He’d spent most of his life as a musician, but had recently become a regional sales representative for a wholesaler. That meant he’d cut his hair short and switched his wardrobe to khaki pants and a polo shirt in [...]

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Latency

08.26.2008

by Denise, of Not What It Seems “Latency is a time delay between the moment something is initiated, and the moment one of its effects begins or becomes detectable. The word derives from the fact that during the period of latency the effects of an action are latent, meaning ‘potential’ or ‘not yet observed’.” I [...]

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Adventures at Midlife: Simulating midlife

08.05.2008

by msmeta of Adventures at Midlife In a recent story in the NYTimes, participants in a three-hour training program called Xtreme Aging held at an retirement care center were suited up as old folks: Along with 15 colleagues and a reporter, [33-year-old participant] Mrs. Ramirez, a social worker at the facility, put on distorting glasses [...]

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Climbing that Ladder to a Satisfying MidLife

06.22.2008

by Karen Batchelor of Midlife’s a Trip I used to think I was on the proverbial “ladder of success”.  I had the corporate job that many people dream of.  But I wasn’t living in sync with my life purpose and values and my personal life was shoved into a corner.  I had this nagging feeling [...]

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