To be honest, I tried not to think about what the Room of Your Own (ROYO) might turn out to be.   I’m too much a child of the ’60 and ’70s, when we knew (and this was pre-Oprah) that what you visualize, you will actualize to even chance a negative vibe.  However, in that corner of my mind where I didn’t want to go was a glimpse of me and maybe one or two other loyal friends, sitting in a  meeting room, trying not to notice that we were the only ones there.  Consequently, I did very little prep for the event, which is why, if you were there, it was less than well-organized.  I had the swag I had brought with me

but I just tossed it on the tables anywhichway so that no one, god forbid, should think that I cared.  And I had the MidLifeBloggers Giveaway prize in all its orange glory, but I never stopped to figure out what the contest actually was or how I’d give it away.  I really did think that I’d end up handing it to Merlot Mom or Average Jane as the three of us shuffled our lonely way out of the empty room.

My refusal to visualize must have worked because, in fact, the Room Of Your Own was pretty nigh full.  Too many, I think, to do the “go around the room and introduce yourself” which is always a good way to get a group going.  The ROYO only went from 1:30 – 2:10 and we might still be there (!).  So I talked (yes, can you actually imagine that), and gave a brief history of the genesis of MidLifeBloggers, explained the overwhelming orange (which is easier to do if one can wave one’s hands a lot), and that this site lives and breathes by its members.  My question to everyone there (and to those who weren’t) was:  What do you want MidLifeBloggers to be for you.

Here are some of the points that were made, in no particular order:

• We are about inclusion. If you identify as being midlife, whatever that means to you, then you’re one of us!
• Some of us love tech stuff; some don’t, but wish they felt more at ease with it.
• Most of the posts are and will be written by MidLifeBloggers.  I will be writing more about this, the how to’s, later in the week.

Of course there was more said…but if I didn’t prepare to say it, do you think I prepared to remember it?  I took no notes and I was amped on adrenalin so you’re lucky I even remembered to take these:

I can see in the photos that some people were taking notes, so maybe they’ll comment and fill in the gaps gaping holes in my recitation.

And who won the MidLifeBloggers Giveaway?  I don’t know.  I thrust it in the arms of someone as she left the room. Maybe the Mystery Midlifer will identify herself soon and tell us what she got….